Priorities

I’m all about giving Bella the best we can afford in life. From organic food, homemade meals, natural toys, and safe lotions. Cloth diapering, Maclaren strollers and HABA toys.

So imagine my surprise when the other night it hit me – so what?

Because in worrying about all of the “right” things, Sam and I have forgotten the most important. The thing we should be spending more money on than anything else.

Us. Our family.

We have neglected our marriage. The one thing that every child wants growing up is a stable, loving family with parents who are happy and love each other. Right? I mean, how many of you growing up thought, “It sucks my parents fight all the time but at least I know tomorrow I get to wear organic clothes to school.” :/

So while those things are still important to me, and always will be, my priorities are all wrong. My focus needs to be on my marriage and our parenting. Yes, being healthy is wonderful, caring about the environment is great, but that comes after a stable marriage for us. It’s been easier to work on being more eco-friendly since everything around us was falling apart.

I’m still going to do all those things, but I’m taking the focus off them in my life a little more, and start spending the money on us as a family and a couple. My daily and long term goals are to provide Bella with parents who love each other and give her a safe, happy place to grow up. That is what I should be working on, stressing over, fighting for.

Good memories of your childhood and becoming a self confident adult, because you were secure in your parents love for you, are more important than BPA free bath toys any day.

Seventh Generation Diapers Review

If you’re considering disposables, want to start a newborn out in something eco friendly before making the switch to cloth diapering, or looking for a great alternative to cloth – even for just trips or daytime use – this is something you’ll want to read.

When we moved, we sold our washer/dryer and had to go without cloth diapers for just under a week. After tweeting about what kind of disposables I should go with (something eco friendly, no harsh chemicals, and that worked) I decided to try Seventh Generation’s diapers.

I bought 2 packages of size 2′s (12-18lbs and 40 in a pack) and they fit Bella (15.5lbs) perfectly. I was surprised that they were brown, but then realized it was because they aren’t bleached out like regular disposables.

Chemicals: I did find that the light brown texture is not due to the “natural” color, but rather they ”use brown pigments to help distinguish Seventh Generation Chlorine Free Diapers from others in the marketplace that are bleached with chlorine-containing substances.” – Seventh Generation.

Wondering about the safety of this, I learned that they, “offer an alternative that is not bleached with chemicals containing chlorine, and are working hard to further improve the sustainability of our diaper products.” The brown coloring is made with pigments that cause no known harm or effects. The white coloring of others is caused by the chlorine bleaching it out.

Which makes me wonder – if you need to wash off after being in a pool filled with chlorine, why would your kid be safe 24-7, for 2+ years in a diaper that uses it? :/

Biodegradable: No, Seventh Generation’s diapers (to the best of my knowledge) are not biodegradable, but the process of making them has significantly less of an impact on the earth than ordinary disposables.

I have tried several biodegradable options, and I’m not impressed. They either fell apart in use (which made a holy mess) or were impossible to get in a diaper cover. If I find a good one, I’ll let you guys know.

Overnights: I worried the most about this – Bella can be a heavy wetter. I never, ever had a leak or problem at night. Also, she didn’t wake up in a sopping wet diaper that weighed a metric ton.

Price wise: Diapers.com sells a pack of Seventh Generation (40 diapers, size 2) for $11.29. Pampers Swaddlers are 11.29 for 33 diapers, and Huggies Snug & Dry are $11.29 for 36. So, Seventh Generation is the better deal.

Likes:

  • They were trim.
  • They were gentle, left no red marks on her skin.
  • They caused no diaper rash (which was great).
  • They were perfect fitting around the waist and thighs.
  • We never had a blowout or leak – even at night.
  • No matter how much Bella wet, they didn’t become saggy.

Dislikes:

  • One of the packs I bought (from Diapers.com) had great elastic on it. The other pack (from my local food store) had this elastic that curved in on the ends. It was harder to grip and maneuver.

That’s it! We loved them, and would use them again anytime. I highly recommend them for any use.

The Smell of Death – aka Stripping your Cloth Diapers

Bella’s diapers smelled like something died in them.

And not just when she balls up her fists, turns bright red and pushes so hard her eyes bulge because she’s pooping (yeah, it’s pretty funny) - they smell 24-7.

I have tried BacOut, natural Oxygen Bleach, washing multiple times with and without soap, more soap, less soap, vinegar… nothing works. We have an HE washer so I put a big wet towel in with them, and soak them before they go in the washer – nope. As soon as I put them on her, they reek to high heaven. It’s to the point where my family is even like, “Wow, does she need to be changed again?”

Even my brand new GroVia’s are doing this – and it’s only been a month. So I’m doing something wrong.

So what do I do now? Any suggestions? Why do the diapers smell like rotten mung beans as soon as I put them on her?

Also – recommendations for good disposables for the few days we will be without a washer/dryer while moving? Something decomposable and natural please!